One in three East Midlands parents 'out of their depth' as children struggle with pandemic fallout

A YouGov survey of over 2000 parents by Action for Children today (Tuesday 14 July) lays bare the devastating impact that the coronavirus pandemic has had on thousands of families in the East Midlands, with parents and children struggling to cope with issues caused by life in lockdown.

After months of lockdown over a third of East Midlands parents (39%) say that their children are feeling isolated and lonely, with thousands also reported as anxious, or unable to sleep. ¹  This has left parents themselves reeling with over four in ten (45%) feeling anxious and more than one in three (32%) admitting to being out of their depth when it came to supporting their children during the lockdown. Many are also experiencing the same loneliness and sleep problems they say their children are. 

Even with restrictions easing, parents are fearful about the weeks and months of uncertainty ahead. Over three in ten (36%) say they are worried their children will struggle to socialise and want to remain at home. Mums and dads experiences included their children ‘bedwetting’, becoming ‘clingy and unsure’ and not ‘wanting to go outside’. Others reported ‘disordered eating’, that their child had become ‘weepy’, ‘frustrated’ or ‘scared of people’ outside their home.

With ongoing uncertainty, Action for Children is warning that things are likely to get worse as the long term impacts of the pandemic become clearer. After seeing a surge in demand of 415% for parenting advice in the three months of lockdown, compared with the same time last year, the charity is launching Parent Talk – a new national online service which connects mums and dads with trained parenting coaches. Its confidential one-to-one online chat service gives parents somewhere to turn for free, practical advice and emotional support.

The charity is also urging the government to do its part by prioritising children’s mental health in the COVID recovery planning, and providing adequate funding to meet the surge in need feared in the months ahead.

Lynn Giles, Parent Talk Manager at Action for Children, said: “The pandemic has triggered a crisis for mums, dads and children on an unprecedented scale, with parents feeling overwhelmed without their usual support from friends and family, or any certainty for the future.

“Huge numbers of children will need extra support over the coming months and parents are telling us they don’t know where to turn. As the immediate health crisis passes we now need to turn our attention to the scars coronavirus has left on families struggling with a whole new reality -  with many grieving from having lost loved ones, and others worrying about their jobs and their futures. 

“With so many mums and dads in desperate need of guidance, a service like Parent Talk is needed now more than ever. Our parent coaches are there for any questions parents have – big or small. Anyone who needs a bit of support in these tough times can go to parent-talk.org.uk.”

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